Life without maid passed by like breeze and everything is back to normal. Good or not...I can't say. But how did the 2 weeks like without maid to me? My daily routine was...
Sent Darren to school in the morning around 9 to 9.30am.
Have breakfast.
Cleared all the dried dishes and tidied up the kitchen (which I have no time to do the night before after cooking).
Preparing food for lunch and dinner.
Tidied up the hall / or do laundry.
Rest for maybe 15 minutes.
Cooked lunch.
After doing all the above, it was already around 12.30pm. Time to pick up Darren from school.
Picked Darren up from school.
Bathed him and myself.
Took lunch together. (He finished his meal in less than 20 minutes and finished vegetables too)
Collected clothes on days we did laundry.
Fold clothes while he watches tv.
Time for nap around 2.30pm to 3pm.
Woke up around 5.30pm. (Yes...he can sleep longer during the 2 weeks. I even need to wake him up)
Watched tv a while.
Cooked dinner while Darren played water at the back kitchen. ( I usually only fried vegetables and meat usually steam or already cooked in the afternoon. I tried to cut short my cooking time in the evening coz of Darren. It takes me around 30 minutes in the kitchen in the evening to cook and wash my kuali).
Fed Darren dinner.
Wait for hubby to come back for dinner.
Washed dishes and preparing Darren's milk and bottles.
Rest a while. (By then, I will have bad backache already)
Bathed. (usually around 9.30pm)
Rest and relax.
Sleep around 11.30pm.
Hubby's clothes sent to laundry shop for ironing.
Hubby helped up in cleaning the house during weekend.
Hubby helped me to load heavy clothes to the machines.
On weekends, we enjoyed going out whole day without worries. Eat good food without thinking twice. We even went for movie and holiday to Port Dickson.
On weekday, I enjoyed the peace without a stranger at home. Everything is under my control except during the evening cooking time that Darren gives me some problem.
We hardly on the CCTV during the 2 weeks. No need to monitor anyone.
I kind of enjoying the life during the 2 weeks although Darren did give me some hard time too. While hubby went for outstation work, I kind of feeling lonely too but everything seems fine and peaceful.
I enjoyed the bonding with Darren. He told me he loves me a lot and I enjoyed his attention to me. He is easier to manage compare to when there are a 3rd party at home.
I enjoyed the quiet moment in the morning without anyone disturbing me doing work and all housework are under my OWN control.
Of course, there are many things that I want to do but beyond my ability, especially housework. I want to bring Darren to playground or cycling outside but not able to catch up with him too.
Now she is back. Everything will be back to normal. I can only pray for the best and really hope my kids will grow up fast and we can live without a maid anymore.
Monday, November 30, 2009
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Maidless
My house is going to be "MAIDLESS" soon..coz my maid is going for a 2 weeks holiday back home. So, I have to handle Darren, cooking, laundry and cleaning on my own. It is a big challenge for me now especially I am pregnant. Although my in laws are kind enough to offer me a helping hand, we decided not to accept as we wanted to try living without any helper around.
Somehow I have to prepare myself if she did not come back (as many people has warned me). I will just leave that to God for this matter.
In the meantime, I have to plan my meal menu well, making sure Darren will go to school without creating problems. I am sending him to holiday program for 3 hrs a day, so I can do my house work and cooking in that 3 hrs without any interruption.
We are taking this opportunity to go for a short break next week. I am looking forward to the holiday and no need to worry where to put the maid to.
It is kind of mixed feelings knowing my maid is going back. We treat her like our family member and she has been good to us (except the last 2 incidents). On one hand, I think I will miss her presence and help at home; On the other hand, I also feel relief that I do not need to worry or keep an eye on a person that I don't trust anymore. Of course, I also feel burden as I have to handle everything on my own, especially taking care of the demanding Darren. He has not been easy nowadays and I am worried I will just lost my cool and start "abusing" him when he is uncontrollable...(I am not joking..)..knowing my lack of patience with him lately.
Well, I know all these are just a matter of getting used to it and adjusting myself to live without a maid. I know I will miss my luxury time resting in my bedroom, doing my own things or watching tv as and when I want. I really don't know how well i will cope but I am sure Darren will miss his kakak for the first few days. Hope he can adjust himself well too without kakak playing with him anymore.
Emotional....emotional....
Somehow I have to prepare myself if she did not come back (as many people has warned me). I will just leave that to God for this matter.
In the meantime, I have to plan my meal menu well, making sure Darren will go to school without creating problems. I am sending him to holiday program for 3 hrs a day, so I can do my house work and cooking in that 3 hrs without any interruption.
We are taking this opportunity to go for a short break next week. I am looking forward to the holiday and no need to worry where to put the maid to.
It is kind of mixed feelings knowing my maid is going back. We treat her like our family member and she has been good to us (except the last 2 incidents). On one hand, I think I will miss her presence and help at home; On the other hand, I also feel relief that I do not need to worry or keep an eye on a person that I don't trust anymore. Of course, I also feel burden as I have to handle everything on my own, especially taking care of the demanding Darren. He has not been easy nowadays and I am worried I will just lost my cool and start "abusing" him when he is uncontrollable...(I am not joking..)..knowing my lack of patience with him lately.
Well, I know all these are just a matter of getting used to it and adjusting myself to live without a maid. I know I will miss my luxury time resting in my bedroom, doing my own things or watching tv as and when I want. I really don't know how well i will cope but I am sure Darren will miss his kakak for the first few days. Hope he can adjust himself well too without kakak playing with him anymore.
Emotional....emotional....
Friday, November 6, 2009
Week 17 & 20 Pregnancy Checkup and Updates
I have been lazy and lost the mood in updating my blog. I should have updated my pregnancy No2 more frequent but.....anyway, I have to combine 2 of my pregnancy checkups in one post here.
Week 17 Pregnancy Checkup.
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Weight: Slight increase in weight. (can't remember exactly)
Sugar Level: High (Doc said will have to do a diebetic test on my next visit on week 20)
When the doctor scanned me, he claimed that everything looked good until when he tried to let us hear the heartbeat...suddenly we could not hear anything from the machine. I got a shock, looked into doctor's facial expression, he looked panic too and he kept trying to locate the heartbeat......it lasted about 1 - 2 mins..we were all in silence and my heartbeat was beating faster and faster...then, the doctor turned the knob on his machine..and .
DOOP..DOOP..DOOP...DOOP.....
Finally, we all heard the baby's heartbeat. The doctor was actually forgotten to turn on the volume on his machine earlier. It really gave all of us a BIG SHOCK. From that moment, I realised how important this baby is to me. I cannot afford to lose the baby and I really love her very much.
Other updates:
1. Morning sickness has improved a lot and no more vomiting.
2. Can shop and walk for longer distance.
3. Still can't feel much about baby's movement yet.
Week 20 Pregnancy Checkup
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Doctor was on emergency leave Monday, so I did my diebetic test on Monday and came back for scan and result on Thursday (hubby's birthday).
The diebetic test actually tests my insulin resistance level. I have to fast for at least 12 hr before the test. On that day, I was given glucose water (a cup of warm water diluted with 75g of sugar) and have to finish "sipping" it in 10 mins. Blood test and urine test were taken before the glucose water. 1 hr after the glucose water, another blood and urine test were taken again. Then the third round of urine and blood test were taken after another 1 hr. I was required to maintain low activity level during that 2 hr. Hubby brought Darren to Sunway Pyramid while I was taking the test.
Result was out the next day and the nurse told me that I have diebetes. I needed to see a dietition to control my sugar level. So, appointment with the dietition was made on Thursday, after seeing my gynea.
Results: 9.5 after 1 hr
9.8 after 2 hr
(Normal range should be <7.8)
Thursday...
Weight: 62.4
Sugar Level: Negative...
Today, we did a detail scan on the baby. The doctor scanned the heart, stomach, legs and hands, brain, backbones and other organs except the liver and kidney which will be done during the next checkup on Week 24. Everything is good and we are happy to see the baby is very active. So...come to the gender of the baby..doctor asked whether we wanted to know and I said "YES" coz I wanted to get prepared for Darren whether he is having a mei mei or di di...and the answer is....
Is ia GIRL......
So, Darren has his wish comes true. We brought him along this visit but he was a bit impatient during the scan. Although hubby kept telling him to see the baby, to him...he is more interested in seeing the doctor pressing the button on the machine.
I suddenly feel the bonding with the baby after the doctor told me is a girl...really don't know why....I think I am happy....hahaha.....
So, after the pregnancy checkup, we proceeded to another level to see the dietition. She is a nice lady. She explained everything to us and let us know how important it is for me to control my sugar level. She took down what I eat everyday and she tried to improve my menu. I need to eat small regular meal with minimum carbohydrate. I am already not taking any sweet and sugary food like cakes or milo, so, there is not much changes in my daily meal menu except I have to cut down my rice and noodle intake.
So, from now on, I need to monitor my sugar level by using the glucometer until I deliver. I needed to prick myself for minimum 2 days in a week (1 weekday and 1 weekend) after every main meal (meaning 3 times a day - 2 hrs after breakfast, lunch and dinner). If I fail the result on that day, I needed to look into my meal again the next day and repeated the 3 tests in a day until I pass the result. If...and IF I have tried my best and I still could not pass, I will need to take the insulin injection to control my sugar level.
It's the thought of pricking myself for so many times for another so many months that scares me. But, what to do...for the sake of the baby, I have to do it.
The hospital is kind enough to loan us the glucometer until I deliver. We just need to pay a deposit of RM250 and there will be no rental fees for that. We just need to buy the needles and the strips. I have to go back to the dietition every time I visit my gynea.
Overall, I am really happy that the baby is growing well and she is kicking me hard and more often nowadays. She started kicking me around week 18 but was mild kicks. Hubby finally can feel her kicks yesterday...on his birthday. She will move or kick more frequent when I lie on my side during sleeping time. Even when I am hungry, she will move more.
I can feel the existence of the baby more since she started kicking me and I love her more and more each day she grows.
Week 17 Pregnancy Checkup.
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Weight: Slight increase in weight. (can't remember exactly)
Sugar Level: High (Doc said will have to do a diebetic test on my next visit on week 20)
When the doctor scanned me, he claimed that everything looked good until when he tried to let us hear the heartbeat...suddenly we could not hear anything from the machine. I got a shock, looked into doctor's facial expression, he looked panic too and he kept trying to locate the heartbeat......it lasted about 1 - 2 mins..we were all in silence and my heartbeat was beating faster and faster...then, the doctor turned the knob on his machine..and .
DOOP..DOOP..DOOP...DOOP.....
Finally, we all heard the baby's heartbeat. The doctor was actually forgotten to turn on the volume on his machine earlier. It really gave all of us a BIG SHOCK. From that moment, I realised how important this baby is to me. I cannot afford to lose the baby and I really love her very much.
Other updates:
1. Morning sickness has improved a lot and no more vomiting.
2. Can shop and walk for longer distance.
3. Still can't feel much about baby's movement yet.
Week 20 Pregnancy Checkup
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Doctor was on emergency leave Monday, so I did my diebetic test on Monday and came back for scan and result on Thursday (hubby's birthday).
The diebetic test actually tests my insulin resistance level. I have to fast for at least 12 hr before the test. On that day, I was given glucose water (a cup of warm water diluted with 75g of sugar) and have to finish "sipping" it in 10 mins. Blood test and urine test were taken before the glucose water. 1 hr after the glucose water, another blood and urine test were taken again. Then the third round of urine and blood test were taken after another 1 hr. I was required to maintain low activity level during that 2 hr. Hubby brought Darren to Sunway Pyramid while I was taking the test.
Result was out the next day and the nurse told me that I have diebetes. I needed to see a dietition to control my sugar level. So, appointment with the dietition was made on Thursday, after seeing my gynea.
Results: 9.5 after 1 hr
9.8 after 2 hr
(Normal range should be <7.8)
Thursday...
Weight: 62.4
Sugar Level: Negative...
Today, we did a detail scan on the baby. The doctor scanned the heart, stomach, legs and hands, brain, backbones and other organs except the liver and kidney which will be done during the next checkup on Week 24. Everything is good and we are happy to see the baby is very active. So...come to the gender of the baby..doctor asked whether we wanted to know and I said "YES" coz I wanted to get prepared for Darren whether he is having a mei mei or di di...and the answer is....
Is ia GIRL......
So, Darren has his wish comes true. We brought him along this visit but he was a bit impatient during the scan. Although hubby kept telling him to see the baby, to him...he is more interested in seeing the doctor pressing the button on the machine.
I suddenly feel the bonding with the baby after the doctor told me is a girl...really don't know why....I think I am happy....hahaha.....
So, after the pregnancy checkup, we proceeded to another level to see the dietition. She is a nice lady. She explained everything to us and let us know how important it is for me to control my sugar level. She took down what I eat everyday and she tried to improve my menu. I need to eat small regular meal with minimum carbohydrate. I am already not taking any sweet and sugary food like cakes or milo, so, there is not much changes in my daily meal menu except I have to cut down my rice and noodle intake.
So, from now on, I need to monitor my sugar level by using the glucometer until I deliver. I needed to prick myself for minimum 2 days in a week (1 weekday and 1 weekend) after every main meal (meaning 3 times a day - 2 hrs after breakfast, lunch and dinner). If I fail the result on that day, I needed to look into my meal again the next day and repeated the 3 tests in a day until I pass the result. If...and IF I have tried my best and I still could not pass, I will need to take the insulin injection to control my sugar level.
It's the thought of pricking myself for so many times for another so many months that scares me. But, what to do...for the sake of the baby, I have to do it.
The hospital is kind enough to loan us the glucometer until I deliver. We just need to pay a deposit of RM250 and there will be no rental fees for that. We just need to buy the needles and the strips. I have to go back to the dietition every time I visit my gynea.
Overall, I am really happy that the baby is growing well and she is kicking me hard and more often nowadays. She started kicking me around week 18 but was mild kicks. Hubby finally can feel her kicks yesterday...on his birthday. She will move or kick more frequent when I lie on my side during sleeping time. Even when I am hungry, she will move more.
I can feel the existence of the baby more since she started kicking me and I love her more and more each day she grows.
Monday, September 21, 2009
Week 13 Pregnancy checkup and updates
Finally..I've graduated from first trimester and entering into 2nd trimester last monday. Went for my week 13 checkup.
Updates:
Weight: 59.2kg (oppss..increased more than 2 kg)
Sugar level: slightly high. Doc said will give me a diebetic test in week 20.
Baby has grown double. This checkup, we were advised to do a first trimester test to check for risk of Down Syndrome in the baby. The test covers 3 areas: check the nose bone, the thickness of the flesh at the back of the neck and mother's blood test to double confirm the results.
When the doc scan me, the baby was not moving much. Probably sleeping. Doc asked me to take something sweet and maintain a full bladder, so to wake baby up and changed the position to a more ideal position for scanning. I took a small bottle of orange juice. Half an hr later, i went back for the scan. True enough, now the baby is awake and was moving both hands - as if like waving to us. The baby was so active.
Through the scan, saw the nose bone. So, the risk has drastically reduced. Then, the thickness is less than 3.0 (around 1.0 -1.3). So, the risk has further reduced. But the doctor said since this is still not an ideal position to confirm the results, we proceed with the blood test, to double confirm the results. The result was out 3 days later and it shows normal. Relief..... THe whole test cost us RM450.......
About the bleeding, there are still some slight bleeding in the uterus but the doctor said since the pregnancy has advanced till this stage, he is not worried about the bleeding. The only thing to be careful of is if I have period cramp kind of pain at the lower abdomen. The rest of the pain at any area of the stomach is fine. (I've been complaining some discomfort here and there around my stomach..)
We were glad that everything went on well.
Some updates on me:
1. Still feel nauseas but not all the time. Only when I over-exert myself or eat the wrong thing.Less vomitting also.
2. Still cannot take sweet stuff.
3. More energy and can walk longer distance.
4. More discomfort at the stomach area. Feel very bloated and gassy.
5. Still need to eat every 3 hrs but can stand hunger better.
6. The tongue will produce one kind of funny taste everytime after meal. This taste will cause nauseas and i tried to eat fruits or gaggle with salt water to remove the taste.
Overall I am feeling better but when i need to vomit, nothing can stop it. Somehow i dun enjoy this pregnancy as much as the first one. I feel a lot more discomfort and unwell even though I've passed my first trimester.
Since mommy is feeling so sick, I never talk or feel the baby as much as I wanted. Daddy was so busy with Darren and also his work, did not pay much attention to the baby too. Honestly, the person that pay a lot of attention to the baby is the kor kor, Darren. I'm so proud of him. He'll come and kiss my stomach on and off. He will ask to hug my stomach too, even when we were half way shopping. He really shows his affection to the baby very much.
Updates:
Weight: 59.2kg (oppss..increased more than 2 kg)
Sugar level: slightly high. Doc said will give me a diebetic test in week 20.
Baby has grown double. This checkup, we were advised to do a first trimester test to check for risk of Down Syndrome in the baby. The test covers 3 areas: check the nose bone, the thickness of the flesh at the back of the neck and mother's blood test to double confirm the results.
When the doc scan me, the baby was not moving much. Probably sleeping. Doc asked me to take something sweet and maintain a full bladder, so to wake baby up and changed the position to a more ideal position for scanning. I took a small bottle of orange juice. Half an hr later, i went back for the scan. True enough, now the baby is awake and was moving both hands - as if like waving to us. The baby was so active.
Through the scan, saw the nose bone. So, the risk has drastically reduced. Then, the thickness is less than 3.0 (around 1.0 -1.3). So, the risk has further reduced. But the doctor said since this is still not an ideal position to confirm the results, we proceed with the blood test, to double confirm the results. The result was out 3 days later and it shows normal. Relief..... THe whole test cost us RM450.......
About the bleeding, there are still some slight bleeding in the uterus but the doctor said since the pregnancy has advanced till this stage, he is not worried about the bleeding. The only thing to be careful of is if I have period cramp kind of pain at the lower abdomen. The rest of the pain at any area of the stomach is fine. (I've been complaining some discomfort here and there around my stomach..)
We were glad that everything went on well.
Some updates on me:
1. Still feel nauseas but not all the time. Only when I over-exert myself or eat the wrong thing.Less vomitting also.
2. Still cannot take sweet stuff.
3. More energy and can walk longer distance.
4. More discomfort at the stomach area. Feel very bloated and gassy.
5. Still need to eat every 3 hrs but can stand hunger better.
6. The tongue will produce one kind of funny taste everytime after meal. This taste will cause nauseas and i tried to eat fruits or gaggle with salt water to remove the taste.
Overall I am feeling better but when i need to vomit, nothing can stop it. Somehow i dun enjoy this pregnancy as much as the first one. I feel a lot more discomfort and unwell even though I've passed my first trimester.
Since mommy is feeling so sick, I never talk or feel the baby as much as I wanted. Daddy was so busy with Darren and also his work, did not pay much attention to the baby too. Honestly, the person that pay a lot of attention to the baby is the kor kor, Darren. I'm so proud of him. He'll come and kiss my stomach on and off. He will ask to hug my stomach too, even when we were half way shopping. He really shows his affection to the baby very much.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Pregnancy Week 10 checkup and updates
Went for my Week 10 check up on Monday. It was my third checkup since I discovered my pregnancy (Week 7 & Week 5). Mil was around to help to take care of Darren while hubby and I can go in peace.
Weight: 56.5kg (Has dropped about 1 kg from the last weight.)
From the scan, doctor said the baby is growing well. But he found there are some bleeding at the right side of the uterus. He asked me to be extra careful and do not aggravate the bleeding. The blood can be absorb by the body itself and asked me not to worry too much. So, I need to lie down more (I thought I already lied down most of the time) and rest more (I also thought I already rested a lot). It does worry me honestly but I tried not to think about it so much.
I am feeling extremely terrible in this pregnancy. I need to eat about 8 meals a day (round the clock) and the problem is I can only take savoury food. If I take any sweet stuff, I will definitely throw out. I vomit average once a day (escape on some good days but can throw out everything I eat on certain days). This is worse than the previous pregnancy. The nauseas feeling is always with me. It gets worse at night. So I can't really sleep well at night. The only time I can sleep well is between 9am to 11am. I guess because I am not feeling well most of the time, I always have bad dreams in my sleep (being chased, miscarriage, explosion..). It makes me feel worse when I wake up, feeling my throat with bitterness and tongue with funny taste.
I am running out of idea what to eat. I am basically sick of eating. I need to eat coz I feel hungry every 3 to 4 hrs ROUND THE CLOCK but I have no appetite to eat. Hubby also run out of idea what to buy for me to eat during midnight. I have been taking sardin and curry puff thing for my midnight snack. I also take quite a lot of Maggie (i know not healthy) coz this is the only food that will not make me vomit and fill my stomach.
I can't watch tv for too long. I can't read books and I can't look at the laptop for long too. I need to close my eyes and rest. So, most of the time, I am lying down at the sofa with my eyes closed.
I can't wait for my first trimester to pass. I am sick of being sick. I am sick of the nauseas feeling and I am sick of eating too.
Just wish the bleeding is gone during my next checkup 3 weeks later.
Weight: 56.5kg (Has dropped about 1 kg from the last weight.)
From the scan, doctor said the baby is growing well. But he found there are some bleeding at the right side of the uterus. He asked me to be extra careful and do not aggravate the bleeding. The blood can be absorb by the body itself and asked me not to worry too much. So, I need to lie down more (I thought I already lied down most of the time) and rest more (I also thought I already rested a lot). It does worry me honestly but I tried not to think about it so much.
I am feeling extremely terrible in this pregnancy. I need to eat about 8 meals a day (round the clock) and the problem is I can only take savoury food. If I take any sweet stuff, I will definitely throw out. I vomit average once a day (escape on some good days but can throw out everything I eat on certain days). This is worse than the previous pregnancy. The nauseas feeling is always with me. It gets worse at night. So I can't really sleep well at night. The only time I can sleep well is between 9am to 11am. I guess because I am not feeling well most of the time, I always have bad dreams in my sleep (being chased, miscarriage, explosion..). It makes me feel worse when I wake up, feeling my throat with bitterness and tongue with funny taste.
I am running out of idea what to eat. I am basically sick of eating. I need to eat coz I feel hungry every 3 to 4 hrs ROUND THE CLOCK but I have no appetite to eat. Hubby also run out of idea what to buy for me to eat during midnight. I have been taking sardin and curry puff thing for my midnight snack. I also take quite a lot of Maggie (i know not healthy) coz this is the only food that will not make me vomit and fill my stomach.
I can't watch tv for too long. I can't read books and I can't look at the laptop for long too. I need to close my eyes and rest. So, most of the time, I am lying down at the sofa with my eyes closed.
I can't wait for my first trimester to pass. I am sick of being sick. I am sick of the nauseas feeling and I am sick of eating too.
Just wish the bleeding is gone during my next checkup 3 weeks later.
Thursday, August 20, 2009
She stays...
I don't know I am just too forgiving or easily manipulated...
Finally she stays...
She apologized to me on Saturday night (with tears and touching words)
She even told me if we are not comfortable with her anymore
We can send her home
So that we can get someone else to help me
Coz since the incident, we did everything by ourselves.
Probably she can sense that we may send her back.
Anyway,we could not find a good alternatives if she leaves
Mil can't help me for long
I need a long term solutions
We do not know H1N1 will last how long
Darren needs someone to play with him at home (not so much of taking care since he is big already)
So, local maid may not be suitable.
Somehow foreign maids can play better with kids.
Sending him to babysitter also doesn't solve the problem
coz hubby always travel outstation quite frequent.
Mil and my mom feel that her mistake is not a major crime,
not to the extent that we should get her pack and go.
I should not risk my pregnancy with these problems.
Coz at the end, I will be the one suffering.
Since she apologized, promised not to repeat the mistake
We decided to give her another chance.
A final chance
I really hope she better behave herself properly.
At least for another 9 months.
Coz I don't think I will extend her anymore after this contract end.
Wish me good luck...
Finally she stays...
She apologized to me on Saturday night (with tears and touching words)
She even told me if we are not comfortable with her anymore
We can send her home
So that we can get someone else to help me
Coz since the incident, we did everything by ourselves.
Probably she can sense that we may send her back.
Anyway,we could not find a good alternatives if she leaves
Mil can't help me for long
I need a long term solutions
We do not know H1N1 will last how long
Darren needs someone to play with him at home (not so much of taking care since he is big already)
So, local maid may not be suitable.
Somehow foreign maids can play better with kids.
Sending him to babysitter also doesn't solve the problem
coz hubby always travel outstation quite frequent.
Mil and my mom feel that her mistake is not a major crime,
not to the extent that we should get her pack and go.
I should not risk my pregnancy with these problems.
Coz at the end, I will be the one suffering.
Since she apologized, promised not to repeat the mistake
We decided to give her another chance.
A final chance
I really hope she better behave herself properly.
At least for another 9 months.
Coz I don't think I will extend her anymore after this contract end.
Wish me good luck...
Saturday, August 15, 2009
I'm in big dilemma
Really big...as in all these did not come in the right time...
I am 2 months pregnant
I am suffering from bad morning sickness (worse happened in the evening till the next morning)
I need to lie down and rest coz I'll feel dizzy very fast and then follow by nausea
All the above means...i am not able to handle Darren all by myself...(not even play with him)
HINI is so severe in Malaysia
I keep Darren at home
Stop all playgroups and school (after 1 day sending him to school)
Most of the time my maid takes care and play with him
Yesterday,
my dearest maid betrayed my trust AGAIN
2nd time in less than few months time
I caught her using hp in the kitchen and she refused to hand the hp to me
She said it was her friend's hp
I know I cannot trust this lady
There is no more trust to her
She did not respect me when I asked her to show me the phone
I felt she is getting more rebellious
Hubs and I feel that we should send her back
Yes...if I am not pregnant
this is the definitely solutions
Coz I know I can handle by myself
But...not now...not at this moment
When I just got pregnant
with all the unpleasant pregnancy symptoms
I will not able to take care of Darren
I am confused
I really don't know what to do
Can anyone advise me what can I do????
I don't think I want another maid anymore..no more foreign maid...
I am 2 months pregnant
I am suffering from bad morning sickness (worse happened in the evening till the next morning)
I need to lie down and rest coz I'll feel dizzy very fast and then follow by nausea
All the above means...i am not able to handle Darren all by myself...(not even play with him)
HINI is so severe in Malaysia
I keep Darren at home
Stop all playgroups and school (after 1 day sending him to school)
Most of the time my maid takes care and play with him
Yesterday,
my dearest maid betrayed my trust AGAIN
2nd time in less than few months time
I caught her using hp in the kitchen and she refused to hand the hp to me
She said it was her friend's hp
I know I cannot trust this lady
There is no more trust to her
She did not respect me when I asked her to show me the phone
I felt she is getting more rebellious
Hubs and I feel that we should send her back
Yes...if I am not pregnant
this is the definitely solutions
Coz I know I can handle by myself
But...not now...not at this moment
When I just got pregnant
with all the unpleasant pregnancy symptoms
I will not able to take care of Darren
I am confused
I really don't know what to do
Can anyone advise me what can I do????
I don't think I want another maid anymore..no more foreign maid...
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